We've been watching Born This Way on Tuesday nights and I can't help compare Beth to the actors on the show. I think the one thing I'm noticing most is the language.
I don't know if you've seen the show but when some of the actors are talking, there are subtitles at the bottom of the screen so you can fully understand what's being said. And now that we're coming to the end of season two, I realize how nice it would be if we could have some subtitles for Beth.
Chuck and I have wondered if some of the show is scripted or if the actors are all speaking their own words but we know Beth wouldn't know half the words they use. I wrote down some examples last night:
"They use explicit language."
"I'm feeling a vibe in this place."
I'm so anxious for you to hear it."
Another place I've noticed a difference in language is when I call DART to schedule or cancel rides for Beth. One of the things they say on their recording is, "We are experiencing higher than normal call volumes." She wouldn't be able to tell you what that sentence means.
She had speech therapy up until she turned 18 and even though I begged
them to continue it they said, "Sorry. You'll have to find someone
yourself and pay for it out of pocket or see if your insurance will pay
for it." Since Beth was still technically in school (students with
special needs leave the school system here in WA at the age of 21) and
we still had two more kids at home, we just never did it. I'm not
blaming them, it's just that life was busy and sometimes things fall
through the cracks and that was one of those things.
Beth's sentences are usually 4-6 words long. I think she would know the word 'anxious' but not 'vibe' and definitely not 'explicit'! I've wondered if it's because we don't use many complicated words here at home? And that could be because we've tried to use words Beth will understand. But maybe she'd understand more difficult words if we used them?
She will often talk too fast for us to understand her and her words are all smashed together. We have to be looking at her when she speaks.
She does know how to read and I'm so thankful for that. She can read a menu, read the signs at the grocery store... in fact while we were shopping for her Seahawks shirt I decided to stop leading her through the store and I casually got behind her while we looked for the dressing room. She headed off like she knew where she was going, except she didn't! After we got lost, she just stopped dead in her tracks and said, "I going the wrong way." Then she looked up and began reading all the signs that hung around the store. And sure enough, she found the one that read "Fitting Room" and headed in that direction.
I've tried to get her to read chapter books but she never showed any interest in those. But she does read a few times a week.
So, back to the show. There are so many similarities to Beth's life but their speech patterns are not one of them. It amazes me how well they speak and the complex words they use. Again, I don't know if they're coached or if they rehearse what they're going to say, but no matter what, it is such a great show and Chuck and I love watching it! We highly recommend it!
Now, can you tell me what aisle the subtitles are on? I'd like to pick up a few.