Thursday, October 10, 2024

Beth Turns 40!

We'll be celebrating her birthday on Sunday but October 10 is her birthday. We've got a lot of surprises for her, one being the chair in the header photo!

We didn't know Beth had Down Syndrome until after she was born. We were stunned when the doctor told us but we knew right away we would still love her.

Funny story - unbeknownst to us, my doctor relaxed our visiting hours. Beth was in my room all day while our families came and went. After a few days my dad stopped by again to see us and I was told they couldn't bring Beth to my room. That's when I learned the doctor wanted to see if we were planning to keep her. How would we treat her? When he saw how much we loved her he put the visiting hour restrictions back in place.

When she was just a couple months ago the Regional Center of San Diego sent therapists to our home to work with her. She learned to sit up at one year, and learned to walk at two.




Beth at One Year


Beth at Two


In this picture Beth is three and Sharaya is one

The Regional Center only worked with kids until they were two, then they started going to preschool. A contained class with other kids with special needs. I drove her the first few times, and this is Beth taking her first bus ride.


She absolutely loved riding the school bus! And did so for the next 19 years.



She's traveled all over the country. We've been on over 40 road trips in her lifetime and she does really well in the car.

Back when car seats were for kids under two





Beth's grown up with the best sisters. They look out for her and make sure she's getting the best care. They fight for her, and with her. 😊 We couldn't have asked for better kids.

Sharaya and Beth


Beth, Diana, Sharaya











Has it always been easy? No. We didn't expect this journey. We didn't even have time to plan for it. Forty years ago we made a decision to bring her home and to love her. She's been bringing joy to our lives ever since!   

7 comments:

Susan said...

Happy Birthday to Beth!!!!

Pamela M. Steiner said...

Happy 40th Birthday, Beth! I can see that she is a blessing to you and to your whole family, and God knew what family to send her to from the beginning. Thank you for being the parents that Beth needed...and how wonderful your other two daughters have been such champions for Beth! That is a blessing in itself! Thank you for sharing this story with us. Happy (((hugs))) to you all!!

ellen b. said...

Happy Birthday, dear Beth. You are truly loved. May God bless all your days!

Regina said...

Happy belated birthday Beth. You are such a beautiful woman!

Terri D said...

Happy birthday to Beth!! An amazing journey full of love and great adventures!! Blessings wished for the year ahead!!

onceuponatimehappilyeverafter.com said...

I hope you are having the best time celebrating Beth today (Sunday). She is a treasure and you all have given her a wonderful life and all the love and support she needed to flourish. After my oldest daughter was born, the nurse told me I would be going home without her because they needed to do testing on her for Down Syndrome. I was alone in my hospital room and called my parents and her father with the news. We knew that no matter what, we would love Brennyn. A few long days later Down was ruled out. But when my second daughter was born, testing was done on her at 6 months, without our knowledge to rule out Down. I know my life would have been very different with one or two Down Syndrome children. I so admire your strength and grace.

Barb said...

Happy Birthday, sweet Beth!! My goodness, she is such a beautiful young woman. Her baby photos were so touching... how could anyone EVER give up a child just because they are special needs?! All of those photos reminded me so much of our, Averi, who also loved the bus ride for all those years. My daughter, Averi's mom, is thinking about taking in a beautiful young woman with Down's Syndrome. She is in her 30's, and has been without a home since she was abandoned when she was 17. Please keep My daughter and this sweet young woman in your prayers as she makes this decision. Again. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BETH!! Hugs, Barb