Thursday, October 10, 2024

Beth Turns 40!

We'll be celebrating her birthday on Sunday but October 10 is her birthday. We've got a lot of surprises for her, one being the chair in the header photo!

We didn't know Beth had Down Syndrome until after she was born. We were stunned when the doctor told us but we knew right away we would still love her.

Funny story - unbeknownst to us, my doctor relaxed our visiting hours. Beth was in my room all day while our families came and went. After a few days my dad stopped by again to see us and I was told they couldn't bring Beth to my room. That's when I learned the doctor wanted to see if we were planning to keep her. How would we treat her? When he saw how much we loved her he put the visiting hour restrictions back in place.

When she was just a couple months ago the Regional Center of San Diego sent therapists to our home to work with her. She learned to sit up at one year, and learned to walk at two.




Beth at One Year


Beth at Two


In this picture Beth is three and Sharaya is one

The Regional Center only worked with kids until they were two, then they started going to preschool. A contained class with other kids with special needs. I drove her the first few times, and this is Beth taking her first bus ride.


She absolutely loved riding the school bus! And did so for the next 19 years.



She's traveled all over the country. We've been on over 40 road trips in her lifetime and she does really well in the car.

Back when car seats were for kids under two





Beth's grown up with the best sisters. They look out for her and make sure she's getting the best care. They fight for her, and with her. 😊 We couldn't have asked for better kids.

Sharaya and Beth


Beth, Diana, Sharaya











Has it always been easy? No. We didn't expect this journey. We didn't even have time to plan for it. Forty years ago we made a decision to bring her home and to love her. She's been bringing joy to our lives ever since!   

3 comments:

Susan said...

Happy Birthday to Beth!!!!

Pamela M. Steiner said...

Happy 40th Birthday, Beth! I can see that she is a blessing to you and to your whole family, and God knew what family to send her to from the beginning. Thank you for being the parents that Beth needed...and how wonderful your other two daughters have been such champions for Beth! That is a blessing in itself! Thank you for sharing this story with us. Happy (((hugs))) to you all!!

ellen b. said...

Happy Birthday, dear Beth. You are truly loved. May God bless all your days!